Are all bad guys able to be redeemed? No, of course not. But neither do all good guys stay good either.
Human nature as a rule is neither absolutely good nor bad, but somewhere between
I know it has been argued for eternity. But one thing that bores me is women who say what they want but have no clue what the difference is between a bad boy and a good guy.I've had my fair share of bad boys, but I have to pat myself on the back here, I never really fell for them, they were just a bit of fun. However, I can't say the same for one of my friends.
"She always falls for the bad boy with loads of money, fancy cars and huge homes... and they always break her heart. While they're going out, she'll call me up and complain that she's not been treated right, and that the relationship is going nowhere. When I say get rid of the loser, she of course thinks that she can change him. So i have a very big big question.....Why are bad boys so irresistible?
Bad boys are handsome and elusive, and that triggers attraction. But it's largely a societal issue. We are programmed by our culture to think that chemistry is love. We are constantly stimulated-by work, television, shopping-and we tend to move on if we're not excited. Also, some women's brains are wired to interpret anger and petulance as love because of their early negative experiences with men.
In conclusion,Do bad boys ever change, or is that just what we want to believe?
Most don't change. When they get old, then they're with somebody who has clout because of youth and beauty. Look at Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones. She has youth and beauty; he has power and status.
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